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PipioloYmas 60M
12 posts
8/23/2009 7:56 am
Men and love


Many of us know about a book called "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus". Some of us even read it! I did, unfortunately too late to save my marriage.

John Gray, its author, later wrote a sequel called "Mars and Venus in the Bedroom" where he says:

"Great sex is the most powerful way to open a man's heart and help him to feel his love and express it to a woman"

I interpret that he means that at the moment where a man is enjoying sex is when he opens up his heart and let the woman's love enter. In that moment we, men, allow ourselves to feel love, to be love, to feel loved and loving.

My experience tends to go in this direction. I feel that with the ladies with whom I felt good at sex -I cannot write "in bed", great sex is not limited to bed - caused me a feeling of longing. There aren't so many cases of this. In most cases they became permanent, solid friends.

What is your experience? You, ladies, did you ever feel that a great relationship was created as a result of great sex?

PipioloYmas 60M
11 posts
8/25/2009 6:00 am

    Quoting  :



Sometimes I feel the same... but not when we are disappointed over expectations.

I remember, for example, a discussion with a lady on her boyfriend's not remembering a present for her birthday. She didn't want to receive anything expensive, just evidence that he remembered her birthday, a small detail was very important for her.

Now you, men, tell me: do you really care about receiving a birthday present? Is is THAT important for you?


feiyankm 52F

8/6/2010 11:22 pm

I believe only there is friendship developed, then nice sex follow. Of course not all friendship whould have sex following.