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Harmony2006 50 M
2  Articles
True Love   2/17/2006

"To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this."


0 Comments, 74 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Asian-American Interracial Marriages. Here are the statistics.   2/16/2006

This data on the rates of in- and outmarriage for the Chinese, Japanese, and Koreans in Los Angeles and Hawaii. In 1979 in Los Angeles, the Japanese rates of outmarriages were the highest (60.6%, followed by the Chinese (41.2% and the Korean (27.6.% The figures were reversed for Hawaii in 2004, with the Korean rates of outmarriage the highest (83%, followed by the Chinese (76%, then the ...


13 Comments, 218 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The History of Saint Valentine   2/13/2006

There are varying opinions as to the origin of Valentine's Day. Some experts state that it originated from St. Valentine, a Roman who was martyred for refusing to give up Christianity. He died on February 14, 269 A.D., the same day that had been devoted to love lotteries. Legend also says that St. Valentine left a farewell note for the jailer's , who had become his friend, and signed it ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Why we pick emotionally unavailable partners   2/9/2006

We wouldn't go to a dentist for corns or bunions, just as we wouldn't go looking for fresh fruit at a hardware store. By and large, we know where to go for what we want. Why is it, then, that sometimes we persist in asking something from one who cannot give it? <br> We recognize unreasonable demands when we meet them, but not always when we make them. Parents expect mature judgment ...


9 Comments, 186 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Love is not a transaction   2/9/2006

If love does know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love, but a transaction. ----Emma Goldman <br> Many people form primary realtionships before they've had a chance to live alone, to be on their own, to test themselves out in the world. Sometimes, in fact, it's fear of testing themselves that drives them prematurely into a relationship. So a lot of early ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Never Take More Than You Can Give   2/8/2006

So many times I hear both sexes talking about their new dates or flings or flames or the ones to be. What I mostly hear is how much the other person has to offer them. <br> He or She has this or that, he or she is great at this or that! <br> What many people often don't think about is, what do they have to offer to the relationship, fling, date or whatever you may call ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Most Romantic Date..   2/7/2006

For those of us who would like to gain some ideas from other peoples experiences.. I would like to ask you.. Explain in detail, what the most romantic date(s) you have every had were like. What was done to make it so romantic? What stood out the most that made you swoon? <br> If you haven't had that most romantic moment yet, explain your most desired romantic date that would sweep ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
CrdnAtd 52 M
8  Articles
build up   2/3/2006

it really takes efforts


0 Comments, 65 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
just a joke...   2/3/2006

was placing his father into a nursing home. "Please don't put me in there !" cried the old man. The said, "Pop, I can't take care of you & work too. I've checked the place out & it is the best one there is. I think you'll love it." The next day the father called his & said, ", you were right! I LOVE this place it is so great here. Thank you so much for making the decision!" "That's ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
wilddream 59 M
3  Articles
Relationship thoughts   2/1/2006

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands. <br> The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships. <br> When people are like each other they tend to like each other. <br> Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and divorce a matter of course. <br> It is the things in common that make ...


1 Comments, 152 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
SexyLatinMale 39 M
1  Article
respect, a good thing?   1/29/2006

Is respect a good, thing seems, lately that when i come across a female my age, when you are good to them they do not want anythign to do with you? is it just me or does it really seem that chivalry is dead. let me know what you think.


2 Comments, 76 Views, 0 Votes
dltctncm 72 M
7  Articles
Ramblings   1/28/2006

Treating a lady with respect and kindness is a way to touch the heart of many women. <br> Sharing similar likes and dislikes is a key to building a solid, lasting relationship. Communication, including a common language, provides a vehicle to learn about each other. Finding mutual happiness cements their souls together. <br> The ideal woman for me has the ability to be ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
dltctncm 72 M
7  Articles
A thousand emails is not worth one day in an unknown home   1/23/2006

Emails are thought out before they are sent, generally. As sincere as the writer may be and as articulate as the words are, it is a correspondence. <br> It cannot express or measure the instantaneous facial expressions that are reactions to words that are spoken. <br> It cannot capture the tone of voice and gestures of a face to face conversation. <br> There is ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
creamykitten 38 F
3  Articles
SHY IN THE LIGHT....BOLD IN THE DARK   12/29/2005

I just can't help it but I am really shy about being naked when I am in bed with my date. They always want to have the lights on but it really freaks me out for some reason. I love the way my body looks and love to show people my photos but when it comes to being in bed and sex I need to be in the dark. Am I being weird or should I get used to the idea of having sex with all the lights on? ...


33 Comments, 1543 Views, 91 Votes ,4.81 Score
fireman544 56 M
3  Articles
Building a relationship via cyber space   12/25/2005

I have no idea. I have attempted to build relationships with women via the internet for the past month. It is not working very well. Indicated by the fact that I hear very little from the women that I initiated communication with when I first joined Asia Friend Finder. <br> I have some theories about why I have been unsuccessful. My pictures are not attractive, We have ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Sexy_Pinay 37 F
2  Articles
What is a non-filipino man to do?   12/22/2005

The husband is not Filipino, yet he is immersed in Filipino culture. He often finds himself fascinated with the Philippines and all things Filipino, yet his own friends, relatives, and co-workers know little or nothing about the island nation or its culture. On the other hand, he may feel unqualified to post messages in Filipino discussion groups and might even feel a little intrusive when ...


6 Comments, 289 Views, 30 Votes ,3.93 Score
iluvanime 35 M
2  Articles
Christmas Time With Friends   12/19/2005

I am wondering about the cultural differences between Asia and America. I have a few new friends in China now and I want to send them some gifts for Christmas. I am not sure what to send though. I don't want it to offend anyone I'm trying to build a relationship with. I also don't want to send mixed messages about my intentions to these people. If I want to be more then friends I mean to ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
anna1980anna 36 F
1  Article
do u think if sexual relationship is important in LOVE   12/19/2005

I got two close friends telling me two different love and sex stories. <br> Candy told me she likes her boyfriend a lot because he will do everything for her and they have great relationship in life. He is financially and emotionally stable and caring. But he is not good in bed and he doesn't know how to show his affection such as kissing or cuddling. so she started to ...


7 Comments, 533 Views, 23 Votes ,4.30 Score
peter483 67 M
4  Articles
Starting a relationship   12/16/2005

Beginning with the first date orletter, people must be totally honest with each other drop all pretenses and poses, and work together to achieve what each wants without compromise and buld beteen them the basis to hold a good relationship for their lifetime based on trust, humility and admiration and sharing responsibilities with one another and they cant fail Peter483 ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
snoopy1928 65 M
3  Articles
Want to get her attention   12/11/2005

Show her you know how to cook! Most girls feel you want to get her into your apartment or home just to get something. Once she has your trust - to enter your humble abode...cook her something you excel at. I made my girlfriend (later became my Wife) a veal parmesian dinner that would knock your socks off complete with the most tasty garlic bread to a delicious Chianti. Hey make sure ...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
Taking Back Your Power   12/7/2005

Tough To Take it Huh? <br> How in the world do you take back your power in a relationship that is not balanced? How many of us at one time or another find ourselves at the point of feeling like we might be putting out more than we are getting back in a relationship? <br> Have you ever found yourself in this situation? It’s strange because when we get to the point ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
gsoh888 51 M
2  Articles
For the girls... Looks or Character?   11/25/2005

Interested to hear from the girls on this one... <br> What would you prefer in your man if you could have only one? <br> - Good looks and good body? - Character and inner confidence? <br> (assume that if you pick one, the other will be a 'medium' quality - so great looks & medium character or medium looks and great character) <br> I was having a ...


4 Comments, 172 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Sexy_Pinay 37 F
2  Articles
Areyou out there?   11/16/2005

I would like to meet a nice, sexy and considerate man from another country than the Philippines. I want to fall in love and live happily ever after. I want my future husband to be kind, healthy, loving and generous. I want my future husband to want to have fun out in the world as well as in our bed. I will take care of you in every way that you like me to.


0 Comments, 235 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
happy22years 42 F
1  Article
building relationships   11/11/2005

hi guys.what are the tips of building a strong relationship?


0 Comments, 128 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
how many of you love the feeling of being in love   10/30/2005

i think love can be compared to an addiction...because of lot of people enjoy the feeling of being in love..but do not know how to maintain that love ... <br> can anyone relate to what i am saying... let me know . : )


2 Comments, 127 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
tony7491044 64 M
4  Articles
Why should you seek an asian woman for marriage   10/27/2005

I am sincerely looking for a slender and thin, (slender) asian woman for marriage. I am looking for a woman, who is about 100 lbs more or less or 50 Kilograms. Someone who is slender, and who is willing to satify their husband to be every night, NO Excecptions!!! I am personally wealthy, and expect a women to satisly "all" my sexual needs. American women will always say "I have a ...


1 Comments, 203 Views, 7 Votes
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
asian men/black women   10/21/2005

can anyone suggest places in upstate new york where women of color. can meet asian guys.


0 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
Friendship & Love The Balance...   10/14/2005

A dear friend asked me a question about the difference between friendshi & love, the advice line helped me come up with these thoughts, thanks guys! <br> Dear Anonomyous <br> The difference between love and friendship is a fine line. Love cannot survive without friendship because friendship is the great balancing act to love. Love pulls us passionately toward one ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
nanook1 65 M
1  Article
Triangle, Quadruple or Hectangle?   10/13/2005

If you are not interested in a philosophical discussion about new forms of lifetime relationships based on a personal background you should consider to not read any further ... <br> I am a married man in a situation, where probably many men are in ‒ the love for the true self of my partner-soul and wife has grown during the marriage, also the love for many of the facets of ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Spirit4u 67 M
1  Article
Well it goes like this....   10/12/2005

often times the female is econimically disadvantaged; so she looks for the male for security and a source of income. This is only a tradional concept. <br> However, with "globalization" over the last 20 years this has cut into to the male's saving power as well as his ability to gather wealth. <br> While the male may be able to save enough to to retire..it often times, ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 0 Votes