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10 Communication Blocks 3/19/2005
Communication is often cited as the number one problem
area in a relationship. If two people understand this,
and are working towards having great communication, then
how can they still run into problems? The reason is there
may be many unknown factors contributing to the demise
of a couple's communication. In this article we'll
take a look at ten possible communication blocks that may
be ...
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Married Life ... 7 ways to fight fair 3/19/2005
Don't hold back communication. You should always
feel free to express an upset or talk about something you
feel is wrong. Remember, it isn't WHAT you say… it's
HOW you say it!
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Make sure you have enough time to actually hash out your
differences. If you try to stop your partner on his way to
work, or you call her on your lunch break, chances are ...
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Make sure you know...before you say, 3/19/2005
Before making a long-term commitment with someone you
need to know that you are compatible. You need to make sure
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that you can live with their life views. The last thing you
need is to invest years into a relationship, possibly even
get married just to find out you have vastly different views
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towards educating , or whether women should work.
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...
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what make love 3/18/2005
this is.. posted on My Blog..
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sometimes just that instinctive feeling that captivates
the moments of two in the meeting of eyes..and sometimes
through the talking about experiences, and finding harmony
of feeling..
so many ways that understanding reflects..which can absorb
one..even in the moment of a glimpse of appeal, that strikes
accord with what the inner self captions ...
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The PERFECT RELATIONSHIP 3/17/2005
As a couple, it is easy to wake up one day and find ourselves
far off-track from where we intended to be. At the beginning
of any relationship we all have great ideals of how the future
will be, but without the right plan it can be difficult to
achieve these.
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Take some time out to tell each other what you would consider
to be your perfect relationship. Start by separately ...
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Living Together (Practical Guide) 3/17/2005
pect to the seriousness of marriage, one should not enter
into the decision to live together lightly. Since most
people's ultimate goal is to become married, living
together should only be a precursor to that event, and should
only be entered into when both people have that as the ultimate
goal.
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While living together definitely has its advantages,
it can become a crutch to ...
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Successful relationship management 3/17/2005
Successful relationship management requires a range
of skills. Like other skills, these need to be updated to
reflect changing circumstances and situations. Here
are our suggestions for keeping your relationship strong.
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Autonomy. Give your partner freedom and support to achieve
his/her own goals in life and respect his/her need for privacy
at times.
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LISTEN FOR LOVE 3/16/2005
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing
the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person,
or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I
love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other
words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive
too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these
are just other ways of saying 'I love you, ' 'you
are important to me, ' 'I ...
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You are very Important to me and I'll tell you why... 3/16/2005
You and I share so much of what is good about life. Things
like ... so many experiences that only you and I have known.
And so many personal feelings and emotions that we have
shown only to each other.
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With us, the ordinary times turn into great times and simple
conversations turn into honest, trusting talks. With
us, so much is understood. So much is ...
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The Lust into Love Formula 3/16/2005
1. First, you feel powerful sexual chemistry with someone
or, in raw terms, lust.
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2. Next, you act on those urges and have sex with that person.
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3. Then you experience some guilt or discomfort having
been so sexually intimate with someone you aren't
that emotionally connected with.
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4. Finally you create a relationship with that person to ...
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7 Compatibility time bombs that can destroy a relationship 3/16/2005
1. Significant age difference.
2. Different religious background.
3. Different social, ethnic or educational background.
4. Toxic in-laws.
5. Toxic ex-spouse.
6. Toxic Stepchildren.
7. Long-distance relationships.
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The ten types of relationship that won't work 3/16/2005
1. You care about your partner more than he does about you.
2. Your partner cares more about you than you do about him.
3. You are in love with your partner's potential.
4. You are on a rescue mission.
5. You look up to your partner as a role model.
6. You are infatuated with your partner for external reasons.
7. You have partial compatibility.
8. You choose a partner in ...
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Six Qualities to LOOK for in a MATE 3/16/2005
1. Commitment to personal growth.
2. Emotional openness
3. Integrity
4. Maturity and responsibility
5. High self-esteem.
6. Positive Attitude towards life
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"TRUE LOVE cannot be found where it does not truly
exist, nor cannot be hidden where it truly does."
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The Five Excuses of Chinese: Intercultural Apologies 3/14/2005
The other day, I was over at a local Chinese-run stationery
and book store. While I was there, I was browsing through
the stacks of cards looking for a Chinese thank-you note
to give to the family of one my Taiwanese private students.
I called the shop-owner (an old friend of mine who emigrated
from Shanghai to Taiwan in 1949 and then who came over to
the US twenty years ago) to give me a ...
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internet love 3/14/2005
This site and the internet are a fantastic service and tool
to meet people and to start friendships. People should
never have to feel bored or alone anymore. A world of men
and women are a few clicks, a monitor and a keyboard away.
It can be a good start to build a friendship. But what about
love?...an internet love? In my opinion, the risk and
disappointment for those ...
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How will you answer him? 3/9/2005
If you got an email, he told you: "The lady I seek is
Chinese and she will possess a tremendous internal beauty
that will be exemplified through her external beauty with
an aura of serenity, assuredness, and great sensuality.
I would like for her to have interests which are similar
to mine, and to have a desire for development of a cozy and
comfortable home and lifestyle. She will know me ...
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There is no theory or rules for romance 3/8/2005
The Discovery channel had done a reaserch on this topic:
The finding is very interesting: the experts says a
in his cognitive development has begun building the image
of his or her future partner or soul mate through their learning
experience and the data stored in their brains.
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It means you can never predict who will be your mr or ms right.
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List Of Shyness Situations Part II 3/6/2005
*-|||-Introducing yourself and entering into a lengthier
conversation with a classmate.
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*-|||-Initiating a conversation with someone in the school
cafeteria.
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*-|||-Initiating a brief conversation with a classmate
of the opposite sex.
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*-|||-Initiating a brief conversation with an attractive
classmate of the opposite sex.
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...
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List Of Shyness Situations Part I 3/6/2005
List Of Shyness Situations
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*-|||-Conversing with a close relative
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*-|||-Calling information and asking the operator for
a telephone number
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*-|||-Calling a local store and asking about the price
and availability of an item you want to buy.
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*-|||-Asking a clerk in a store for the ...
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building trust and association 3/1/2005
One of the hardest things to do is trust someone,
and build an association with them at the same time. Trust
will come in time, in how you associate with them in a public
arena. Its the beginning of compatibility or incompatibility.
The first thing I ask a woman, is what are you looking for
in life? Depending on the answer you get, you may be surprised
what they answer. You're looking for ...
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First Date Opening Kiss . . .Part one 2/25/2005
First Date Opening Kiss - Don't wait
until the end !
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On first dates, most guys wait until the end of the date for
the "goodnight kiss". Many others cowardly
avoid it all together, or wait for her to make a move.
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I tell guys all the time, you've got to kiss a woman goodnight!
Don't make her do it - she probably won't. Further,
it ...
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There are two main reasons you aren't willing to risk dating right now. 2/24/2005
There are two main reasons you aren't willing to risk
dating right now.
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Sometimes dating seems too risky because you are too emotionally
tender to take any risk at all. You might have just had a difficult
break-up, for instance. After that, ANY risk will seem
like "too much" risk, and you just have to take
time off and heal.
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More often, though, a recent ...
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Accepting that you are choosing to not date is an empowering step. 2/24/2005
Accepting that you are choosing to not date is an empowering
step. You aren't a victim who never meets women. You
are choosing to not do what it takes to meet them. Accepting
that not dating is a choice gives you the ability to take
the next step.
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If you are lonely, yet still choosing to not date, there
is probably a GOOD reason for it. Most of the time, though,
you will ...
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Have you ever had a woman you were interested in say "Oh, I'm not dating right now"? 2/24/2005
Have you ever had a woman you were interested in say "Oh,
I'm not dating right now"? You've probably
been blown off with that very statement, and felt small
and powerless. How could she be so powerful as to choose
to not date ? Would you ever choose not to date? The answer
is probably "no."
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We want to suggest to you that if you aren't doing anything
to seek out women and ...
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Online Love Can Really Work! 2/24/2005
I know that you have heard it, and I have heard it to: "You
met her on the internet"? These words somehow are
supposed to diminish a relationship that was formed on
the internet.
I disagree that the way we meet people determines how the
relationship will proceed.
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Meeting people on the internet is just one new way that people
can come together and possibly fall in love.
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Artificial Assurances 2/3/2005
Once I spoke such a beautiful language that I crafted from
my own loneliness.
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My desire and desperation sang to me, and through me to you.
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And it caught you all at once. You stopped and listened to
these crude, clumsy poems of longing, beginning with "hello."
The world felt like it was turning in a new direction.
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So then you showed your words to ...
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Sexual Preference and Relationship 2/2/2005
Are you straight, Bisexual or gay? This question has been
asked by many parents when their sons or daughters have
not invited any girls or boy to the house for meeting the
family.
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Not many people are relationship minded but there are many
people are relationship minded and who spend time to seek
for the best one in their life.
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However, "sexual preferences" ...
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Tease to Please 2/1/2005
Tease to Please works because it short-circuits women's
usual defense
mechanisms to meeting 'strange' men. You see,
every woman comes
with her factory-installed defense mechanism against
meeting new
guys. When a guy approaches her, for any reason, she assumes
you're picking up on her. It's what she's
gotten used to. All
women are by now, and they all have a standard routine of ...
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Culture, Language and Understanding 1/31/2005
Many of us here are seeking for interracial friends from
different places on this planet. Have you ever thought
of if we can speak one language, least the lest misundestanding
will be? However, for a better relationship, it requires
a better understanding of the custom, culture and language
in terms of communcating and developing a bonding.
Do you know that language and culture as ...
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Essense of Ba-Ci 1/31/2005
It is said a person's intrinsic is largely known in
his/her ba-ci which means 8 character in mandarin.
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To built a relationship, knowing two person's ba-ci
compatibility indeed will shorten their time to discover
if they truly meet each other's expectation.
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Much has been said about chemistry, so difficult to define
yet every wish they could quickly know. Therefore ...
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