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From Heaven to Hell---2(Dedicated to a special girl) 5/20/2007
I strongly believe i have recently lost a true love with
a true girl(Through AFF).I want to admit it and i want to
blame me.But i'm unable to understand chinese culture.I
don't know how i lost it.When i fall in love im totally
unorganised.I think, that what love should be.I failed
to make her understand how much i loved her.Anyway, i still
have to wait for my true love but who is she i don't ...
1 Comments, 74 Views,
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From Heaven to Hell-----1 5/19/2007
First of all, i want to gratitude to AFF and all good girls
and boys who responded to me as good friend.To be honest,
this article related with AFF's experience and an
autobiography.Hopefully, everything true will be presented here.My full name is
MD INSUN KOOFIA.My profile name MDKOOFIA.U can call me
Insun meaning human being in arabic.So now u know i have
middle eastern background n double ...
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Accidents and intersecting footpaths 4/22/2007
I believe that people come into your life for a reason. However
brief and fleeting the moment is, it is a lesson to be learnt.
About life, about others and more importantly about yourself.
Intersecting footsteps are no mere accidents; it is a moment
that was meant to happen. Some may ask what life would be
then, if everything has already been predetermined. I
think life would ...
3 Comments, 60 Views,
11 Votes
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是我尝试对艰苦 4/18/2007
如此如果一次人尝试对艰苦交朋友,
他转动夫人去?
他惊吓他们吗?
他是对憎恨吗?
什么会是最佳的方式? ...
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young lady vs. middle age man 4/15/2007
i know that too many asian women who are young be with or get
marry with the middle age american man. some of them have
a really good happy family. However, some of them have to
choose divorce to end the relationship. most of the middle age guys love to get together with the
, and most of the young asian women would like
to take the risk.i belive that they do have love, but it's
the age gap and ...
5 Comments, 331 Views,
17 Votes
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Turning Her Head 4/8/2007
How do you build a relationship. With
out that first meeting. In order to build you must have that
first moment. That first bar of music in the symphony that
will be the love of your life. Yet, all you have are simple
tools. Your eyes to flirt with her. So that she knows. That
you notice her. Let her know you notice her with a 2-3 second
stare. Look at her face move them to ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
2 Votes
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BASIC HUMAN NEEDS 4/6/2007
Apart from food, shelter, warmth and money,
we all need and want to be "in love". My dad used
to say that "to be in love is to be in a state of grace".
Having not been in this "state of grace" for
some time now, it is easy to lose sight of the fact that one
is special and should continue to have high standards otherwise
what would be the point? Life is somewhat like a ...
2 Comments, 61 Views,
12 Votes
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Building a Relationship 3/25/2007
What do you hope to get out of a relationship? To feel attractive,
secure, happy, desirable? I know these things sound great, but it could be that you're
looking for something in your relationship that you can't
ever get. The popular notion that two people together make
a whole, that you're just one half looking for your
other half is a lie. The truth is that many of us struggle
with fears that ...
4 Comments, 104 Views,
9 Votes
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Human geography of dating chances 3/25/2007
I just found this in the February 2007 issue of the National
Georaphic Magazine, and I thought this would be the right
place to share it...
According to the US Census single women are more numerous
(in the 10s of thousands) than single men in the eastern
states, while the opposite is true for the western states.
The difference is attributed to women beign more numerous
in academic ...
5 Comments, 165 Views,
5 Votes
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Be pushy... 3/24/2007
Recently I've been advised to be more pushy with girls
whom I'd like to have a special relationship with.
My current view is that love can't be "compelled",
and if it is, it won't last for long. If while trying to build up a relationship, I get the feeling
that the girl has other priorities, other than meeting
me... well that's it! Why waste more efforts.
But as I said, a person I ...
5 Comments, 178 Views,
4 Votes
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Can You Be a Lady and a for your Good Man? 3/18/2007
The American expression “a lady in the livingroom and a
in the bedroom, ” and the Korean expression “a lady
in the day time and a at night” perhaps represent an
international men’s fantasy of what they want from their
women.
My question for you is: Can You Be a Lady and a for your
Good Man? Is it possible?
11 Comments, 320 Views,
21 Votes
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Learning to "Want" and what it means 3/18/2007
DAMN IT!!! What do I need him for? ( so many women utter this
and never know what they utter..)
that's the problem right there..
it should not be based on her needing him.. but on her "WANTING
HIM"..
we've had too many centuries of women basing their
love on need, and as each need is filled or chaged, then the
love become less and less.. till they get to the common inevitable ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
3 Votes
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Is Sleeping together in the same bed good for your relationship? 3/17/2007
On the front page of the New York Times (March 11, 2007) was
the story “To Have, Hold and Cherish, Until Bedtime, ”
about couples who sleep in separate beds and who sleep
in the family bed.
Imagine all the problems: snoring, tucked or untucked
sheets, one coming in late or getting up early, one tosser-and-turner!
Are these problems worth working hard to solve while ...
3 Comments, 131 Views,
6 Votes
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Gratitude builds relationships 3/16/2007
It is easy to want to be someone’s friend or mate
when all is well. It is also easy to portray ourselves as
doing better than we actually are. If you really want to
know who loves you….. When the bottom falls out, look around
and see who is standing beside you holding you up when your
legs are too tired to stand on their own. That is who loves
you and never forget that ...
10 Comments, 218 Views,
8 Votes
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Are Asian women better in bed and good wives? 3/15/2007
Is it true that the Asian women are more willing to do all
the houseohold chores and not complain, more wiling to
have \bsexo?\b when their man wants, and the position he
wants. Asian women have feminine attitudes toward their
men?
Is it true that Asian women are better \bsexo?\b partners
and better marriage partners?
Is it true that there is a difference between those raised
in the ...
6 Comments, 343 Views,
14 Votes
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The ethic of reciprocity is what builds a relationship 2/26/2007
The ethic of reciprocity
or "The Golden Rule" is a fundamental moral
principle found in virtually all major religions and cultures,
which simply means "treat others as you would
like to be treated." -Wikpedia
When one lover feels they are being unfairly taken advantage
of financially in a relationship (of course we have to ...
5 Comments, 192 Views,
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10 000 kms 2/26/2007
i remember when i was a ager i got an american penpal a pretty girl from middle east after writing many letters and promise to meet us when i grew into a man i all forgot
i think to built a real relation ship we must be real earnest adult but i think in network there are still many agers of all ages
0 Comments, 20 Views,
3 Votes
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It's just nice to be back online 2/25/2007
Miss You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stan...
7 Comments, 115 Views,
5 Votes
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Be honest from the get go 2/19/2007
If you paint an exaggerated picture of yourself or present
yourself through rose colored glasses what are you accomplishig?
You should want the other person to want to be with you for
the real you not some illusion.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
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Make sure you have the biggies in common(religion,etc.) 2/17/2007
I think you should respect the person's racial, ethnic, cultural, and
religious background.You shouldn't try to change
someone.Either you accept them as is or you don't.
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
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Friends First? 2/11/2007
Do you believe its best to be friends first before a relationship?
I think its better cause you don't have so much pressure
on the first date. And you get a chance to know if they are
right for you or not. What do you think about this?
3 Comments, 49 Views,
2 Votes
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culture difference in relationships 1/22/2007
I have heard that building relationships
are different, based on cultures.
I have read that it is hard
for someone, from a western culture,
to understand the relationship aspect of the Chinese Culture.
I have read that you have to do it in the correct order, and
it has something to do with borrowing things.
I guess it is like building a credit rating,
when you take out a loan.
...
0 Comments, 77 Views,
7 Votes
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When can a relationship be rich enough to withstand other relationships? 1/22/2007
When can a relationship be rich
enough to withstand other relationships, including sexual
relationships? How long and what will it take? Particularly
in long-distance or online relationships?
I must admit this is a challenge early in a relationship
while groundworks are laid down.
Ideally, rules have to be set from the start as to how much
effort both ...
11 Comments, 158 Views,
8 Votes
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What can you not live without? 1/21/2007
Honesty and Trust, Respect, Fidelity,
and Communication are the things I cannot live without
in a relationship. Other than Love of course, without which
the rest would practically be hard if not impossible to
live out.
What can you not live without?...
6 Comments, 130 Views,
9 Votes
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Wow, AFF is a online Marital shopping mall! 1/21/2007
I chatted with a few ladies as of
recent who told me they met their first husbands on AFF and
are now either going through a divorce or are already divorced.
Then once the divorce in the process they are back on AFF
looking for another husband I don't know if I would
keep going to the same place to search for a wife if I had met
her on the same website and ...
9 Comments, 172 Views,
6 Votes
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Promises... Why keep them? 1/18/2007
At the start of a relationship, we all promise things to
our partner and to ourselves. Even by behaving different
than we really are, we make a promise. But after a while,
we become ourselves again. And those very same promises
are the reason for dissapointment, and the downward spiral
in a relationship.
The only message here is 'be yourself' and 'only
promise what you can ...
0 Comments, 56 Views,
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it 1/18/2007
Online dating : to start a relationship online. Distance
makes you meet your love short times, and it may take a while
before you meet the first time.
So sooner or later you talk about 'it'. How much
desire you have to consume the fysical part of the relationship.
Depending on the woman, this exchange can take place in
words, or become cyber.
But neighter party is ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
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What is it? 1/11/2007
What I found out from AFF. A new non-member or paid member
might get very popular within a month when you join in. Receiving
many emails, and winks. You might think....I am full of
confidence, I am still charming, I really would have a chance
to find a true love here soon. After that month, only one
month, your ambitious will be gone gradually, getting
hopeless.
Fake? Game ...
1 Comments, 57 Views,
5 Votes
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Is it hard or easy?? 1/11/2007
Yes, what are you think of building a relationship? It´s
hard or easy for you?
5 Comments, 98 Views,
3 Votes
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How do you deal with this? 1/9/2007
Let’s face it. Men and women speak
different languages. Intimacy is closely associated
with women while independence with men, generally speaking
that is. So let’s try to narrow down on these differences.
A man has the tendency to devote more time to the woman that
catches his attention during the early dating stage ‒ and
I can name a ...
15 Comments, 282 Views,
18 Votes
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