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ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Asian-American Interracial Marriages. Here are the statistics.   3/18/2006

This data on the rates of in- and outmarriage for the Chinese, Japanese, and Koreans in Los Angeles and Hawaii. In 1979 in Los Angeles, the Japanese rates of outmarriages were the highest (60.6%, followed by the Chinese (41.2% and the Korean (27.6.% The figures were reversed for Hawaii in 2004, with the Korean rates of outmarriage the highest (83%, followed by the Chinese (76%, then the ...


13 Comments, 218 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Just informed of a sudden death   3/14/2006

One of my closest and most selfless male friends, by the name of Ben called me this afternoon.
His grandfather died of lung cancer, and tomorrow I will attend the Christian wake.
He was crying here and there, only noticable to a friend.
His painful dilemma?
His grandmother was elderly and striken with grief herself. At first she didn't want to be inside ...


5 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Never wear a dicky on a Pub Crawl   3/11/2006

Me's getting the willies, not a wet willy Lord Heavens. Legal Drugs, can anyone spare a an aspirin the size of a watermellon? Me heads about to explode from Migrano. It's rather different than a Migrain.
A Migraino is like a Vulcano. When you get the headache, it's like you've done a three day pub crawl back when fraternity seniors were hazing you to finish the last snippet of a ...


2 Comments, 49 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Some of my most embarrassing moments!   3/9/2006

So much for building any type of relationships during these embarrassing moments! <br> <br> WHEN I WAS IN A HOT MINERAL BATH IN JAPAN <br> <br> My ex-girlfriend, her sister, and her sisters husband and I went to this hotel that was built on top of a natural hot springs and made of dense green mineral water. <br> I saw many old men in there whom ...


13 Comments, 181 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
fairytale78 40 F
2  Articles
Building a stronger friendship,Mr Snoopy   3/8/2006

It's almost impossible to accept the facts that snoopy is having a difficult time, whatever you get to read from the responses hardly review what had happened to him.Some one who deserved lots of my respect and unselfish concern, i sincerely hope you can catch a hold of yourself.And remember that all bad moments have an end too, we are not going to give up because we are the one who is ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Never Take More Than You Can Give   3/8/2006

So many times I hear both sexes talking about their new dates or flings or flames or the ones to be. What I mostly hear is how much the other person has to offer them. <br> He or She has this or that, he or she is great at this or that! <br> What many people often don't think about is, what do they have to offer to the relationship, fling, date or whatever you may call ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Some Unexpected Consequences of CHEATING???   3/8/2006

CAN YOU AFFORD THE PRICE OF INFIDELITY? If you have been following the business news lately, you could not have missed the story about the CEO of a huge airplane manufacturer being forced to resign after an anonymous tip that he was having an affair with another employee. <br> This is a perfect example of the high price of infidelity. Here is a man with a high profile, ...


9 Comments, 87 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Falling in love with a commitmentphobe?   3/8/2006

You just can't build a relationship with these types of people....how many of us have experienced the dissapointment??? <br> <br> Falling in love with the commitmentphobe is the easiest thing in the world to do! The thing about the commitmentphobe is that he (or she) usually comes on very strong in the beginning stages of the relationship. They will hold nothing back to win ...


11 Comments, 154 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The 10 Rules of Dating When You're a Single Mom   3/8/2006

I have dated one single mother in the past, one lady had two boys and one girl. I was in uncharted waters because I had never dated a single mother before, and I eventually moved in with her and her . This was also the first time the lady had a steady boyfriend and even brought a man to her home, let alone move in with her and the . So she was in uncharted waters too. <br> ...


9 Comments, 215 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
MALE ERECTILE DYSFUCTION   3/8/2006

MALE ERECTILE DYSFUCTION abbreviated as (MED) can result to the ending of a relationship for some people. However, I have some good news for you. <br> <br> IF the PROBLEM is PHYCHOSOMATIC <br> <br> There are plenty of qualified sex therapists which handle cases of Male Erectile Dysfunction. Remember ladies, all the way back to the stone age and even till ...


5 Comments, 136 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Does your partner have "Posttraumatic Stress Disorder?"   3/8/2006

From: The National Center of PTSD & The US Department of Veterans Affairs. <br> Article: What is Posttraumatic Stress Disorder? <br> <br> What is Posttraumatic Stress Disorder? A National Center for PTSD Fact Sheet <br> Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD, is a psychiatric disorder that can occur following the experience or witnessing of ...


6 Comments, 105 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   3/8/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


11 Comments, 205 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
SexyLatinMale 39 M
1  Article
respect, a good thing?   3/2/2006

Is respect a good, thing seems, lately that when i come across a female my age, when you are good to them they do not want anythign to do with you? is it just me or does it really seem that chivalry is dead. let me know what you think.


2 Comments, 76 Views, 0 Votes
lostinsydney 50 F
3  Articles
A Thought on Connection   2/22/2006

"We can only learn to love by loving."


1 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
wilddream 59 M
3  Articles
Relationship thoughts   2/22/2006

The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but to hold hands. <br> The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships. <br> When people are like each other they tend to like each other. <br> Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and divorce a matter of course. <br> It is the things in common that make ...


1 Comments, 152 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
gsoh888 51 M
2  Articles
For the girls... Looks or Character?   2/21/2006

Interested to hear from the girls on this one... <br> What would you prefer in your man if you could have only one? <br> - Good looks and good body? - Character and inner confidence? <br> (assume that if you pick one, the other will be a 'medium' quality - so great looks & medium character or medium looks and great character) <br> I was having a ...


4 Comments, 172 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
dltctncm 72 M
7  Articles
A thousand emails is not worth one day in an unknown home   2/16/2006

Emails are thought out before they are sent, generally. As sincere as the writer may be and as articulate as the words are, it is a correspondence. <br> It cannot express or measure the instantaneous facial expressions that are reactions to words that are spoken. <br> It cannot capture the tone of voice and gestures of a face to face conversation. <br> There is ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Love is not a transaction   2/10/2006

If love does know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love, but a transaction. ----Emma Goldman <br> Many people form primary realtionships before they've had a chance to live alone, to be on their own, to test themselves out in the world. Sometimes, in fact, it's fear of testing themselves that drives them prematurely into a relationship. So a lot of early ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Pompey2005 47 M
5  Articles
Filtering people   2/2/2006

I find that the older we get the more pickier we become when it comes to finding that special person. <br> This is probably a result from building a criteria from previous relationships. After a while we kind of know what we like and don't like in a person. This could be from first impressions or as things develop. I call this the filtering stage. <br> We all know how ...


1 Comments, 323 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
fireman544 56 M
3  Articles
Building a relationship via cyber space   1/30/2006

I have no idea. I have attempted to build relationships with women via the internet for the past month. It is not working very well. Indicated by the fact that I hear very little from the women that I initiated communication with when I first joined Asia Friend Finder. <br> I have some theories about why I have been unsuccessful. My pictures are not attractive, We have ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
LISTEN FOR LOVE   1/21/2006

There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you, ' 'you are important to me, ' 'I ...


0 Comments, 431 Views, 27 Votes ,7.13 Score
stratoca7144 56 M
8  Articles
Taking Back Your Power   1/13/2006

Tough To Take it Huh? <br> How in the world do you take back your power in a relationship that is not balanced? How many of us at one time or another find ourselves at the point of feeling like we might be putting out more than we are getting back in a relationship? <br> Have you ever found yourself in this situation? It’s strange because when we get to the point ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Internet Dating: 5th (final) Clue She's Ready For A Date   1/9/2006

She initiates repeat e-mail. If you're the kind of man who wants a sure thing, then do what I referred to in Clue #4 as "testing the perimeter." If you've been talking to a woman for a week or so, and she's giving off clues that she's interested in a date, it's time to find out for sure . What to do: Don't e-mail or call her for a day. If she sends you a ...


0 Comments, 283 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
Sexy_Pinay 37 F
2  Articles
Areyou out there?   12/12/2005

I would like to meet a nice, sexy and considerate man from another country than the Philippines. I want to fall in love and live happily ever after. I want my future husband to be kind, healthy, loving and generous. I want my future husband to want to have fun out in the world as well as in our bed. I will take care of you in every way that you like me to.


0 Comments, 235 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
how many of you love the feeling of being in love   11/24/2005

i think love can be compared to an addiction...because of lot of people enjoy the feeling of being in love..but do not know how to maintain that love ... <br> can anyone relate to what i am saying... let me know . : )


2 Comments, 127 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Jiethomas007 49 M
34  Articles
The Irony of Love   11/23/2005

The greatest irony of Love: <br> Loving the right person at the wrong time, <br> Having the wrong person when the time is right, <br> And finding out you love someone right after <br> That person walks out of your life... <br> And sometimes, you think you're already over a person, <br> But when you see them smile at you, ...


0 Comments, 786 Views, 70 Votes ,7.52 Score
tony7491044 64 M
4  Articles
Why should you seek an asian woman for marriage   11/15/2005

I am sincerely looking for a slender and thin, (slender) asian woman for marriage. I am looking for a woman, who is about 100 lbs more or less or 50 Kilograms. Someone who is slender, and who is willing to satify their husband to be every night, NO Excecptions!!! I am personally wealthy, and expect a women to satisly "all" my sexual needs. American women will always say "I have a ...


1 Comments, 203 Views, 7 Votes
myjomojo 46 M
2  Articles
Your Self and The Other   11/1/2005

Building a relationship is building self understanding. All people you have met till now have either challenged or supported your beliefs at that period in your life. As much as they have mirrored your attitudes and beliefs in life, so too have you given the same gift to the other person. So in essence you have built relationships throughout your life. If you met people you have had ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
nancyzhao78 37 F
2  Articles
Enter the romantic garden   10/20/2005

It happens in the afternoon of a Friday, I see that there are very a lot of balloons outside the window of the office. Because they are the beautiful, I walk close to the windowsill and see. Those balloons rise from park opposite my office block. But this time is the busiest time. Who rises in park so beautiful balloons? Then I left the office and moved towards the park. When I ...


1 Comments, 510 Views, 14 Votes ,2.18 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Pros of moving in together   10/12/2005

1- Making your friends jealous Your friends spend all their free weekends dropping huge coin on booze and cover charges on the chance that they may get invited back to someone's place to get laid. You now have that "place, " in perpetuity. Five bucks rents you and your honey some porn and a bag of popcorn. Your sofa is way comfier than any lounge couch out there. Let the good times roll! ...


0 Comments, 227 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score