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Thoughts on how to make a Relationship work 6/25/2006
his applies for me, and so.. if it works for you fine, if not,
surely you got your own program, that works for you. and
that's "GREAT" work your progam..and
be happy with your living. no matter what you do.. you only
get the life of the here and now.. hope the best for you in
what you make it..
a little more than I normally disclose of my personal life..
but hey... it's about .. ...
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What is a relationship? 6/15/2006
Hi,
How can we define what a relationship is. There are various
types of relationships (casual, romantic, open, closed......).
However, regardelss of the various types of relationships
there are some similar fundamentals within each type of
relationship. Those fundamentals are:
1. Agreement between the parties.
2. A commitment to some degree.
3. A general it is a state ...
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Plan Out Dates/Love Tatics 6/5/2006
One of the easiest ways to exhibit your leadership and independence
to the one you want is to have a plan when it comes to your dates.
Never give the mistaken impression that you are content
to let things just happen. Show some initiative. Plan out
the details of your date--know where you're going,
what you'll be doing, and how long it will take. Don't
leave these things at chance, or it ...
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Shaking Their Confidence/Break a Date! 6/5/2006
Although breaking a date with someone runs the risk of an
angry reaction, this is precisely why it can be such an effective
tool in winning that person's love! It shows that you're
not intimidated by their opinion of you or what you do. It
shows you do not fear their anger or potential rejection.
It's a subtle way of reasserting yourself in a relationship
at a time when the other person is ...
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Building Relationships on Trust---One Brick at a Time. 5/31/2006
Relationships must be built on trust one brick at a time.
If we don't build our relationships one brick at a time
our relationships will fall apart quickly. Some just think
that relationships build themselves without any effort,
I find that hard to do if I want anything that is going to last.
In my past relationships I have found that the more effort
I put into the relationship, the ...
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Are you in the market of 'used' car? 5/26/2006
You can ask: "Why he is bringing his cars on AFF? I'm
not buying a car!?" Of course not. But who are we here at FriendFinder networks?
While some of us may be really brand new 'undriven'
partners (good for them), I think majority of us have already
gone through the pain of the first love.
We are sort of 'used' cars, people who lost their
emotional virginity. Sounds cynical? Maybe, but ...
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Forgiveness In Relationship 5/23/2006
FORGIVENESS AND RELATIONSHIPS
To start a discussion on Forgiveness we have to lay down
some basic ground rules. Without groune rules we would
be like grass blown by the wind and subjected to hollywood’s
idea of this concept of forgiveness as well as our own experiences
which may be subjective or not at this point and we would
just end up spinning our wheels and coming up ...
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"The Wooden Bowl" 5/22/2006
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl
tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.
A frail old man went to live with his , -in-law,
and
four-year
old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight
was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together
at the table.
But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing
sight ...
2 Comments, 109 Views,
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How is a relationship built? 5/19/2006
It's true that in the world in which we live it is easier?
1 Comments, 30 Views,
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The internet illusion 5/17/2006
Chatting on internet seems to be often like an optical illusion.
There is a gap between what we imagine and the reality. But
due to the direct communication we tend to forget the gap.
It becomes an illusion. What we see is not what we should
see. What we see is first the result of our imagination.
Often it does not correspond exatly to the reality.
We are naturally prone to consider the ...
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Mother’s day and flowers. 5/16/2006
Today we were supposed to go out to brunch and celebrate
Mother's day. My sisters planned to pick up my mom and
I, and take us to Back Home in Lahaina, a nice Hawaiian style
restaurant. Well my sisters were late as usual and that
upset my mom to the max. She called several times and my sisters
had so many excuses about being late so she said she would
take me to brunch and off we went. ...
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Send mail to me 5/11/2006
Seen you in my Friend network, and think of you whether you
would like to call on me or not.Hope you would like to become
my friend.If yes send me mail for further association seen
in your profile
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The art of listening .... Communication.. 5/10/2006
When a relationship goes sour, one of the
first things to suffer is communication. If you can't
communicate with each other, then there is no possible
way to salvage the relationship. The thing to do is to prevent
communication from ever being a problem. One of the most
important aspects of this is to learn how to be a good listener.
Listed below are a few guidelines to help ...
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5 secrets of staying in love 5/10/2006
Just about everyone wants to know how
they can make their relationship better. They want to know
how they can deepen the commitment & love between each
partner. Unfortunately relationships are not something
you can provide a "to do" sheet for and all will
be solved, but with these five key secrets you can certainly
improve your chances for getting all you desire out of your ...
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trust not all you see, but wht you feel 5/4/2006
is the farthest and greatest journey a any man may travel..
for it is riddled with many things, it is wrought with the
tribulations of things undreamed and yet unthought...
it is to walk in blindness and know not of what is light..
It is a path that leads down alley ways of darkness and pathways
that ae unchartered...
It holds mystreys that are of a bewildernment, that defies
logic, and ...
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How , shall love enter your heart 4/29/2006
Shall it be like the moonlight dancing upon the seashore,
each wave.. making its light shimmer.
Shall it be as the evening sun that shines across the lake...
as a stream of unbroken light, which goes into infinity.
Shall it come as the sunlight cast upon a mountain hillside,
covered by snow... pure and blinding out all, but itself....
in the brilliance of pure whiteness..of light
...
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Meeting Girls 4/28/2006
My brother has been talking to this girl and he's confused
with the messages that she's giving out to him.
She calls him almost every night just to chat, she sits close
whenever they meet for dinner or coffee, and she tells him
about her old boyfriends (which according to our friend,
means she's feeling comfortable). But apparently
she's not interested in having a relationship.
Now, ...
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of what do men become.. thru their contention? 4/27/2006
I]yet.. it may just present whom they've always been..
you men engage in this, is no different than the warmonger's
that hae set the world into turmoil... and you bring that
here.. and for what?
is your measure of a man based on who can insult whom?
for regardless what you feel your knowledge is, and what
you feel your play on words can pretend to convey... your ...
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does this apply for you as a man? who can love a woman 4/27/2006
I can say... in certainty... of whom I am, what my heart lives...
and my life encompasses..
A woman who stand face to face with me ... open in heart and
true to what is life, and what is the vastness of love..
Will surely find in sharing such with ma...
A lifetime, even in the briefness of moments...
Something of love and reality... that free's her soul,
and embraces her ...
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Can American Men and Chinese Women connect? 4/25/2006
Can a American man (In America) meet a Chinese woman (In
China) through the internet and make friends? Then visit
each other when they travel to the other's country?
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relationship 4/25/2006
-Building a relationship whether short or long term is
like taking care of a flower. In order to bloom and yield
its beautiful petals and the sweet fragnance, You have
to care of it and water it daily. If you leave it alone and
let other insects invade it, it might die and never flourish
again.
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I reported that handle Zowey was a fake profile, stolen from my website 4/17/2006
Why is it that I was told it would be taken down and now I see
it was up and now she or he or however stole the photographs
from my website, she now has two articles up on the Building
a Realationship article section in which I had already
reported to AFF Abuse team and I was told it would be taken
care of.
They are trying to get a free buck from my website and one
of my famous ...
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the first letter from a lady 4/14/2006
The following is the first letter from a lady in Russia:
Hi! I have received your letter on www.asianfriendfinder.com
and I'm
writing to you. I think will be better to communicate by
e-mail. This
is my e-mail address and you can write me here anytime. if
you have
any questions feel free to ask me and I will answer you. This
is only
test e-mail and I don't give you ...
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the second letter 4/14/2006
The following is a letter from a lady in Russia:
Hi Luo! How are you? I'm very glad to receive your letter.
thanks that you found time to write me. Tell me about yourself.
What is your job? where are you from? what do you like to do
for fun? Everything that you want. You can also ask me anything
what you want to know about me.
I live in Russia. I have never been in other ...
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ASIAN WOMEN 4/2/2006
I AM LOOKING FOR AN ASIAN WOMAN 40 TO 70 YEARS OF AGE AND MUST
NOT SMOKE.GET BACK TO ME IF YOU ARE INTERESTED THANKS. I
AM 55 YEARS OF AGE AND LIVE IN THE RIVERDALE AREA OF THE BRONX....
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building a long distance relationship 4/2/2006
hmm is it possible to have a real long distance relationship?
and if yes would it be very strong people to as it can take
ages before you are with the one you love for ever.
what are your thoughts , is it possible also possible to
either move to were the future wife is living.
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BE GOOD ANYWAY 4/2/2006
"People are often unreasonable,
illogical, and self-centered,
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse
you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some
false friends and some true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank,
people may cheat you.
Be honest and frank anyway.
...
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The Benefits of Having AFF Confirmed ID Tag 3/30/2006
I Just Received My AFF Confirmed ID
Tag
If you want to build a real relationship on the AFF website,
you may have fallen in love with a fake photograph, along
with a fake name, along with a fake country or city.
After all, you just have to give any credit card and a e-mail
address to AFF, then you are a member! That's if you
are a paying member.
...
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Dating 3/25/2006
Seems to me every time I try to look
for someone, I can’t find him. My last relationship lasted
in 2 ½ years was when I had no intention to look for a guy. Then
there he was, chasing me down and didn’t give up. Funny how
life works, doesn’t it? Finding a person is not hard; keeping
the one you like is difficult. I come to a conclusion is that
I ...
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Remeber this.. 3/23/2006
Remeber this when no money was exiting and we people trade
things for other things. That was much better then. Only
I hope those days is not behind, so we can become closer in
our neighbour country again..
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