Most Women and men don,t understand each other! Usually when a relationship grows cold it is because of financial problems, misunderstanding, control issues, or one or the other tears the other one down making them think they are worth very little to the other, or one of them is getting denied lovemaking and quality time together (especially if one is a work-a-holic, alcoholic, or drug-a-holic) because in this situation you rarely are a giving person and that is what makes a relationship strong! Misunderstanding I think is the biggest one! I will give you an example: If a man sees love as Tomato soup he will give plenty of it to his lover. The problem is that the woman is expecting Chicken Noodle soup which is what she believes represents Love to her! So the couple rarely receive the love that was meant for them but that they perceived to be just more garbage! I suggest couples to ask each other what the other percieves as being true love behavior to them! That way the man learns to give the woman Chicken Noodle Soup which represents Love to her and the woman learns how to give her lover plenty of Tomato soup which represents love to him! So the couple complement each other, rather than having resentments a lot of the time that make the relationship get more bitter as the resentments stack up! If this HELPS anybody please let me know!!

Topic(s): Spiritual